A post to those who are tired

Dear sisters (and misters… this has been the request),

I want to write to those of you who are tired- tired of being brave or strong or carrying on, and to those who have a friend in this place.

Yes, in fact, I write particularly to you… you who are seeing this from the outside.  Continue reading

To my Christian friends (Divorced: Part 4)

To my Christian friends,

I have been thinking lately about what I want to say and how it can be put in a way that you can hear me, that you can hear my heart.

First, let me say that I know you mean well. I truly do. I know most of you don’t intentionally say things that are hurtful or biting. Your intent is not to cause more pain… but often it does. You walk away thinking that you spoke God’s truth, but in reality, it may have been a sprinkling of salt on an open wound. Continue reading